After over 3 decades, it would be easy for me to explain the difference between "broken" and what a survivor looks like.
It is like looking at a vintage car that has been fully restored.
A senior veteran can be fully restored too!
PTSD Patrol Sunday Morning Empowerment Zone
You have a lot of miles on your spare tires. Your shock absorbers may be a little worn out. You may need some body work. The truth is, you survived all of the events that put miles on your ride. A lot of them were bad but more of them were good times.
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